Day 'O Fun

I cannot believe someone actually posted a comment on one of the entries. That is SO friggin cool. Now where the hell are the rest of you? I checked the stats on my site and I am getting assloads of hits. So either people think this is some kind of bestiality website or they think I am a nutjob and have no desire to comment about my entries in fear of my hunting them down. I would NEVER do that :) But MUCH thanks to MEG for being one of the first, other than the Elf.

Speaking of which, I have spent much of the day with him. We watched The Crow (damn good movie) and then spent much of the evening talking and analyzing things. It is quite a tiring thing for me so I cannot imagine what itmust be like for the other person to whom the issues belong. I always wonder if I do any good, and sometimes I think I do. I have learned that it is much easier to pose questions than to offer advice or opinions. I find that the latter can be very dangerous whereas the first allows for a better conversation and allows the other person to come to a solution or answer. However, it is difficult as SHIT to keep your mouth shut especially when you know the answer and have the solution that you are sure will help. But everything in it's own time I guess. I had to be burned in order to learn despite what anyone told me, so how can I not expect the same from someone else? It is a VERY difficult thing ot watch friends and loved ones go through problems that you wish you could give them answers to; the it is much more fulfilling to be a presence, to provide and ear or a shoulder, and to discuss...rather than to lecture. Life is quite interesting. Actually, as I always say: Life's a Bitch...so I became one!