1. When was the last time you helped out a friend in need? What was going on that made you want to help?
Emotionally or Materially? For the former - a friend having anxiety about a life issue. I just lent and ear and was viciously dismissed. For the latter - a friend needing headshots and resumes printed out for an audition. What made we want to help either.....selflessness.
2. Are you a "pet" person? Do you like to keep pets or would you rather not bother with them? Why?
Yes. I love animals. I like having pets, but the kind who are somewhat independant (cats).
3. In a dating or married relationship, is it possible to change someone to be more like you want them to be? Have you tried to or had someone try to change you? How did it turn out?
It can be possible if you wanted to do that, but I feel that you are with the person for who they are and despite who they are. You gotta have grit to go with the gravy.
4. In your opinion, why is it that some married people have affairs? Is it ever justified?
Being unhappy. Realizing everything is not what they thought it was because they never thought about it clearly before. It is never justified. It;s dishonest to the person you are with.
5. Do you tend to make the same mistakes over and over? Got any examples?
Sometims. Being selfless to the point of getting hurt. Letting people into my life when I know it will end up badly. And on and on and on.
6. What do you find distracts you the most when you are trying to concentrate?
Background noise that I have to decipher, i.e., soft conversations versus audible ones.
7. What do you know "now," that you wish you knew "then?"
That I don;t have to settle and that I deserve better.
BONUS: What's the matter with your life?
Heh. We're not even going there.
